Kissing is probably one of the most physically romantic moments two people can share. I often get emails from inquiring minds that want to know how to be a better kisser. There really is no wrong way to kiss, but there are a few tried and true techniques that will guarantee success. The thing to remember is that everybody kisses differently and each person prefers different ways of kissing. Below are some basic tips that will ensure an enjoyable experience every time!
- Great Breath –There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath! If a night out consists of having something to eat before kissing, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don’t eat the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum – the only thing you want in your mouth while kissing is the other person’s tongue!
- Moist Lips – You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don’t wear sticky lip gloss or lots of lipstick before you kiss your partner, because that tends to make the kiss messy and awkward. Having slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner’s and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience. This is the perfect time to apply your favorite flavor of Bosom Buddy! One of my favorite Pure Romance products, Bosom Buddy is a tingly lip and nipple balm and can be used to spice up any intimate moment. You will both have lots of fun licking, kissing and nibbling it off!
- Hands – There are many ways you can use your hands during a kiss. The most popular way is to put one hand on your partner’s waist and the other one against the middle of their back. Other ways to use your hands are to cup your partner’s face in your hands (very romantic), put them around your partner’s neck, put them around their waist, hold your partner’s upper or lower arms gently, run your fingers through their hair, or just hold their hands in yours. Your hands are a wonderful way to express your enjoyment during a sensual kiss.
The true art of kissing depends on you and your partner’s chemistry and the style that works best for you. But remember, the perfect kiss is one that is done with someone you truly care about. There is more caring and sincerity in a kiss with someone special than with someone you hardly know, although a really good kiss can certainly bring two people even closer together.
Kissing is a wonderful way to show someone you care very deeply and passionately about them, and is also a great way to enhance your level of foreplay. Whether you are in a new relationship or looking to rekindle the spark in a long-term relationship, don’t forget the importance of a great kiss!