To Each Her Own

Published April 27, 2009 by Patty Brisben

Choosing a bedroom accessory can be a fun, but overwhelming task! Finding the perfect toy is much like finding that perfect car, sometimes it takes test-driving a few to really find the one you love! Bedroom accessories are a lot like cars, in that the more money you are willing to spend, the more luxurious the product will be! Think about the smooth leather seats, the fancy sunroof and fully equipped stereo system, all of these features can make that drive on a sunny spring day even more exhilarating! Those experiences are no different with your bedroom accessory. It’s just all about finding the right product for you.

It can be somewhat challenging, though, for me to suggest the “best” toy for people, because everyone is going to be different with their own unique wants, needs, and preferences. When purchasing your own bedroom accessory, the most important thing is for you to decide the type of stimulation that you are looking for – which is the first step to finding a product that is right for you. The information below is designed to help you better understand the types of products offered through Pure Romance.

Clitoral toys are designed to stimulate the clitoris, which is an extremely nerve-rich area of a woman’s body (it has 8,000-12,000 nerve endings!). Many women are able to reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation, so this is usually a good starting point for first-time users. Clitoral toys are great for exploring your body and your sexuality for the first time. Clitoral toys are for external use only, and they are very easy to use. They can also be incorporated into foreplay and other sexual activities with a partner. The most common type of toy in this category is the bullet. Popular products in this category are Silver Bullet, Nectar Connector, Waterproof Power Bullet, and Ultimate 7th Heaven.

Vaginal vibrators are used internally to stimulate the vagina. These types of toys come in a variety of shapes and sizes, but were all designed to stimulate the vagina. These products can also be used to stimulate the clitoris, and can also be incorporated into sexual activity with a partner. When using a vaginal vibrator, I recommend pairing it with a water-based lubricant, such as Just Like Me or Sweet Seduction, for added comfort, satisfaction, and safety. Popular toys in this category include Lean Machine (which is very popular among first-time users because its petite size), Velvet Touch, and Shockwave.

The Classics (or dildos) are another type of toy, but they do not vibrate. They provide control for women who are interested in various types of stimulation. Dildos are great for thrusting, and they come in different shapes, sizes, and styles. It is best to use a water-based lubricant when using a dildo to ensure your comfort and satisfaction. Popular toys in this category include Mr. Dependable and Easy Rider.

Dual-action vibrators provide both clitoral and vaginal stimulation – it provides the best of both worlds! Dual-action vibrators come in many different shapes, sizes, colors, and prices. Some toys rotate, while others do not; some have beads or ball-bearings, whereas some have a smooth shaft. The purpose of beads or ball-bearings is to provide stimulation to a nerve-rich area of the vagina: the first 1-3 inches. I recommend that you use a water-based lubricant when using a dual-action vibrator to ensure a comfortable and enjoyable experience. Popular toys in this category include B.O.B. (Battery Operated Boyfriend -.a Pure Romance exclusive), Ice Ice Baby, Daddy from the ‘Nati, and Bling Bling.

G-spot vibrators were designed to stimulate a very sensitive area inside the vagina, located about 2-3 inches inside the vagina on the anterior wall (the same side as the belly button). To locate the g-spot, the easiest way is to hold out your hand, extend your first 2 fingers (index and middle fingers) and make a “come here” motion. If you were to do this inside the vagina, that would mark the approximate location of the g-spot. It is usually easiest to find the g-spot after you are already aroused; the spot actually grows in size and the texture of the area changes (it feels like the outside of a walnut). This area is nerve-rich and typically requires firm pressure to reach orgasm. When stimulating the g-spot, many women may feel the sensation of needing to urinate; this is because the g-spot sits right underneath the bladder. I recommend emptying your bladder prior to sexual activity and laying down a towel; this will help put your mind at ease, knowing that you will not urinate. If you begin to feel this sensation, continue stimulation, as the feeling will soon pass. Sometimes during g-spot stimulation, women experience what is known as female ejaculation. This is not urine, but is expelled from around the urethra during stimulation. Not all women have experienced this (or have known that they have experienced it), and if this happens to you, it is not something to be embarrassed about (likewise if you do not experience it, you do not need to be embarrassed). Every woman is different and experiences things in different ways. When using a g-spot toy, I recommend using a water-based lubricant. Popular g-spot toys include G-Money, G-Wiz, and Wireless Thumbs Up.

Our final category of toys is our anal toys. Anal toys should have a base or handle on them. Anal toys also come in a variety of shapes and styles for Little Gem, Pleasure Beads, and Butt Plug. During anal play, I recommend the use of a silicone-based lubricant, such as Pure Pleasure, for added comfort, satisfaction, and safety.

A great way for you to find the perfect bedroom accessory is to host your own Pure Romance party, where one of our Consultants will share with you all of our toys and be able to help you find just the right toy! This is a journey you will never forget!

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