Best of YOU List!

Published December 27, 2011 by Patty Brisben

Allure magazine prints its Best of Beauty list every year, honoring awesome products and salons around the U.S. The Grammy awards acknowledge the best artists, albums, and performances of the year. The Oscars honor stand-out actors, films, and musical scores. Every city, publication, and industry honors its best qualities and moments of the year. But do you acknowledge your own best qualities and moments of the year? Now is the time!

Fill out the below list about yourself to see how you’ve done in 2011!

-My favorite moment of the year was __________________________________________________

-I deserve the _________________ award this year because ________________________________

-My most stylish moment was _______________________________________________________

-The greatest personal success for 2011 was ______________________________________________

-I’m most proud of myself for ____________________________________________________this year

-I never thought I’d do it, but in 2011 I __________________________________________________

-I had the best time with my friends when we _____________________________________________

-I had the best time with my family when we ______________________________________________

-I had the best time with my significant other when we _______________________________________

-I felt sexiest when _______________________________________________________________

-My healthiest choice of 2011 was _____________________________________________________

-My happiest memory of 2011 is ______________________________________________________

-The biggest learning experience of 2011 was _____________________________________________

Now that you’ve reflected on your 2011, think about how you filled in the blanks. How did you feel while you were filling this out? Probably happy, I hope! Think about these moments you wrote about: What’s the take-away? What can you learn from those experiences to make 2012 even better? Focusing on the good you created in 2011 will help you create a surplus of favorite moments in 2012! Remember the effort, energy, and attitude that went into creating your bests and figure out how to emulate that time and time again. Let’s make 2012 the best year yet!

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Christmas: Live in the Moment

Published December 19, 2011 by Patty Brisben

Amidst all the parties, shopping trips, and planning this holiday season, remember what this is really about: celebration. No matter what holiday you celebrate, whether it’s Hannukah, Kwanzaa, Bodhi Day, and beyond, this is a time to enjoy yourself, your family, your friends, and the time that you have together. A holiday is not about the past, and it’s not about the future. The day of Christmas, for me, is about right now and treasuring the moment. On Christmas Day, or whatever holiday you celebrate, live inside the moment.

This means letting your worries drop. Take a good look at the people around you; notice the love and warmth in the room. Admire the smiles of your children and grandchildren. This is what the holidays are really about. Living inside the moment means being thankful and grateful for the life that has brought you to this day, but prizing the 24 hours within the holiday like a precious jewel.

Sharing laughter, joy, dinner, and the day together is what it’s all about. Becoming overwhelmed by stress is not the intention of the holiday, so no matter how much you want to let yourself feel stressed by all you have to, don’t. You have the choice to feel stressed just as much as you have the choice to feel joyful and thankful on such a precious holiday. All year, we look forward to this time. Spend that time wisely, and take full advantage of those hours with your loved ones.

Maya Angelou once said, “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” My holiday interpretation of that quote is that people won’t remember the wrapping paper on a present, and they may not remember the present itself. But what they will remember is how they felt on that day, and YOU will remember how the people around you made you feel. The way to create lasting memories from a holiday is simple: be in a good mood. And you can get there by not letting yourself stress out and focusing on all the good that surrounds you—namely, your family.

View the holiday season as it’s truly meant to be: a time to rejoice, a time to celebrate, and a time to share the joy and love with those closest to you. I wish you a very happy holiday season.

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Be a Great Holiday Guest!

Published December 12, 2011 by Patty Brisben

We are in the throes of the busiest season of the year. While we get stuck in the mindset of how busy we are, we have to keep in mind that everyone is feeling the pressure. When it’s your turn to relax and enjoy the party, not run the show, keep the hostess of the party in mind. She’s probably worried about having enough wine, hoping everyone gets along, and concerned about everything else but herself.

If you’ve ever hosted a party before, you know how stressful they can be. What did you wish for as the hostess? As you’re attending parties this year, keep the hostess and other guests in mind.

Here’s how you can be a great holiday guest!

-Be classy and fabulous: Coco Chanel said it best: “A woman should be two things: classy and fabulous.” In a party environment, remember to arrive in a good mood, be sociable, and always be polite. Even if you’re best friends with the hostess, she wants to leave all her guests with a good impression. You can start with returning an RSVP as soon as possible—a hostess needs to know the number of total people who are attending and plan accordingly. Keeping your alcohol intake to a minimum and leaving any lewd or crass humor and behavior at home will leave the hostess at ease. Your reputation will be in check, too!

-Bring a hostess gift: You should never show up to a party empty handed. Depending on your relationship with the hostess and how formal the party is, you’ll be able to judge what kind of gift you should bring. A bottle of wine, a nice dessert, a certificate for a post-party spa treatment, or cocktail glasses are all great, thoughtful options. You want to ensure the hostess knows that you’re thankful and that you’re thinking of her.

-Thank the hostess in her love language: People speak in five love languages. People are receptive to Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, Physical Touch, or a combination of any of those languages. Be sure to thank the hostess in her love language. For example:

-If she responds to Words of Affirmation: Tell her, “Thank you so much for putting on this beautiful gathering. You are an excellent hostess and made this a really enjoyable night!”

-If she responds to Quality Time: Talk to her when she has a moment alone to thank her and compliment her. Be sure there are no distractions around and that you give her your undivided attention.

-If she responds to Receiving Gifts: Aside from a hostess gift, offer to take her out to dinner or treat her to a girls’ night. Thanking her with a night in which she gets to relax and have fun will be rewarding to her.

-If she responds to Acts of Service: Stay later than the rest of the guests to help her clean up or wash dishes, or call her before the party to see if there are any last-minute items you could pick up for her. Relieving her of anything that might be a burden will speak volumes.

-If she responds to Physical Touch: Hug her as you thank her for the party, or gently pat her forearm while giving her a compliment.

-Don’t be tardy for the party: Being punctual is respectable; being late is not. Remove the “fashionably late” excuse from your vocabulary! Respect the times explained on the invitation so as to relieve extra stress, worry, or uncomfortable situations. It would be upsetting if you were the one hosting a dinner party, for example, and someone walks in while everyone is on their main courses.

-Mix and mingle: It’s easy to talk to only the people you know, but try to be as much of a social butterfly as possible. Float around the room and be open to conversation with anyone. Introduce yourself to people you haven’t yet met. Be receptive to people who approach you and be conversational. Keep conversation lively and interesting; people attend parties to have fun!

With these tips, you’re sure to be the life of the party and the dream guest!

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Are YOU on Your To-Do List?

Published December 5, 2011 by Patty Brisben

December—a time that should be dedicated solely to family, friends, and enjoying life—is when life gets even more hectic for me, and probably for you, too. For me, it means wrapping up this year’s business, searching for the perfect gifts for my children and grandkids, celebrating numerous birthdays, attending countless holiday parties, planning a Christmas celebration for my whole family, and prepping for my daughter’s New Year’s Eve wedding (and the list could go on). All this magically fits within the time span of four short weeks.

My to-do list is never ending, yet there is one important to-do I have to remember to add: me. In the month of December, perhaps more importantly than ever, I need to remember to make time for myself. This past year has been a whirlwind. With the expansion of Pure Romance in South Africa and Australia, the launch of the e-book I co-wrote, working to raise funds and awareness through the Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health, and always improving the Pure Romance product line and business, I have been so busy I’ve lost touch with myself a little bit.

When you have your business, family, and demands of life on your to-do list, it’s more than easy to nix “me” time from the mix. “Why do I deserve time to myself when there’s so much that needs to be done?” you might think. Well, think again.

There is a quote that is everywhere right now. It says, “Keep calm and carry on.” Ninenty-nine percent of the time, women do just that. We feel stress, but we suppress it and carry on until the tasks at hand are complete, or the other people in our lives are happy. This month, I challenge you to stop and take a minute to yourself instead of powering through. Stop, breathe, read a magazine, take yourself out to dinner, get a pedicure—whatever it is that you want to do, do it. And then carry on with your tasks. There is only one you, and people understand that.

It’s also important to remember that not everything needs to be done. It’s not the end of the world if something waits an hour. Do not see this as giving up. Instead, think of it as giving yourself a mental break. Stress bodes well for no one. It can negatively affect everything from your sex drive to your sleep—and we all know what stress can do to one’s mood. If for no other reason, put yourself on your to-do list so you stay relaxed (as relaxed as possible, that is), happy, and healthy during this holiday season.

Give yourself the biggest gift of all: Make yourself a priority. You’re likely to have everyone and everything else on your to-do list before carving out time for yourself. It’s time to change that. Those closest to me know I have an impossible time slowing down, relaxing, and doing things for me. But this December, I’m making the impossible possible. I’m making myself a priority in the midst of chaos, and because of this, I’ll be able to enjoy my own company as well as my family and friends even more. Having a happy holiday season means making yourself happy, too.

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Giving Thanks…to Yourself!

Published November 30, 2011 by Patty Brisben

In the U.S., we spend the whole month of November giving thanks to everyone else. Now it’s time to turn the focus to yourself. For some reason, thinking or talking about one’s self for an extended period of time can make one feel uncomfortable or wasteful. Why spend so much time on one’s self? If you aren’t thankful and in love with yourself, how can you expect others to be thankful and be in love with you? I say you should treat others how you’d like to be treated, and treat yourself how you’d like to be treated, too! Use December to work on YOU!

This month, give thanks to yourself. Here’s how you can do it:

1. Suspend judgment of yourself. Let go of negative self-talk. Stop thinking of the things you don’t like, the mistakes, or the body that you think isn’t perfect. It’s going to take practice and effort, but stop those thoughts in their tracks—they are no longer allowed.

2. Name all the things about yourself that you’re thankful for. This may feel awkward or arrogant at first—you’re probably not used to focusing so much on you. But the more you allow yourself to see the wonderful things about you, the more wonderful things there will be (and the longer your list will grow!). When creating your list, try to flip any negative thoughts you once had. Your list might sound something like this:

-I am thankful for my inner strength.

-I am thankful for opportunities to grow.

-I am thankful for a body that carries me through anything.

-I am thankful for learning to become more forgiving.

-I am thankful for my good hair days.

-I am thankful for being an excellent mom.

-I am thankful for always being a good friend.

-I am thankful for my integrity.

3. Reflect on your list. Read through your list several times over. Let it sink in. Think about why you wrote what you did and where it stems from. You really are deserving of self-recognition.

4. Put YOU on your to-do list. Putting yourself on your to-do list will benefit your mental health, your physical health, your family, and everyone around you. Making yourself a priority is thanking yourself. I’ll expand on why this is so important in my next discussion.

5. Carry your list with you at all times. Whether you memorized your list of things about yourself for which you’re thankful or you’ve written a list, always have that list with you. In times of stress, pressure, anxiety, or sadness turn to your list. Read over it. Remember what inspired you to write those things about yourself. Feel the positivity about yourself that went into the list. When you carry your list around, you’re really promoting your own self-love.

Your list will always help you remember the real you, the core of who you are, no matter the situation. I find it helpful, especially around the holidays, to be thankful for everything, including myself. Being grateful produces more things, situations, aspects, and people to be thankful for. Being thankful for you will be a huge step to creating and maintaining a happy, full life.

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Urogynecology 101

Published November 28, 2011 by Patty Brisben

In the past few weeks, I’ve given you an overview of some of the great things the Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health is passionate about. This week, I’d like to hone in on a type of doctor that can be a woman’s best friend and voice of comfort during trying times.

As minimal as training for general practitioners may be, there are certain healthcare providers that do specialize in women’s sexual health dysfunction, which are called urogynecologists. They typically specialize in Pelvic Floor Disorders, but also help in all realms of a woman’s sexual health throughout her lifespan. I decided to talk two experts in the area: Victoria Schwartz, DPT, WCS, and Mary South, M.D. and Board Member of the Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health. Like a good patient, I turned to them with a list of questions to see if they could help me better understand what there is to know about pelvic floor disorders and other ailments that fall under the specialty of urogynecologists.

What does urogynecology entail?

The field of urogynecology (a subspecialty within Obstetrics and Gynecology) is dedicated to the treatment of women with pelvic floor disorders (PFDs) such as urinary or fecal incontinence and prolapse (bulging or falling) of the vagina, bladder, and/or the uterus, and pelvic discomfort.

How many women do pelvic floor disorders affect?

Victoria Schwartz: PFD affect a substantial portion of women and [likelihood to have a PFD] increases with age. Statistics vary depending on the study. Some statistics from recent studies are:

-Up to 50% of women have urinary incontinence.
-25-40% of women report urinary leakage during gynecological exams.
-There is a 16% lifetime risk of developing chronic pelvic pain.
-The prevalence of having at least one pelvic floor disorder is 23.7%.
-The lifetime risk of undergoing surgery for pelvic organ prolapse is 11.1%
-There are more than 500,000 surgical procedures performed annually for urinary incontinence and prolapse.

What age range does this normally affect?

VS: PFD can affect women throughout their entire adult lifespan.

What causes PFDs? Are there any preventative measures women can take?

VS: Risk factors for developing PFD include: increasing age, pregnancy and delivery, trauma, decreases in estrogen levels, a history of hysterectomy, obesity, chronic coughing, constipation and straining, and connective tissue laxity. Pelvic floor muscles are the hammock-like muscles that support the pelvic organs, have sexual function, and help to maintain continence. Weakness and dysfunction of these muscles can lead to PFD.

Women can help to prevent conditions like bladder and bowel incontinence and pelvic organ prolapse with pelvic floor muscle exercise (commonly known as Kegels). Pelvic floor muscle training is a conservative approach to treatment and extends far beyond Kegels. It is estimated that 30% of women incorrectly perform a pelvic floor muscle contraction even after instruction. Women’s health clinical specialists in physical therapy can be helpful in training women to correctly perform pelvic floor contractions and establishing a progressive exercise program for muscle strengthening. Women’s health physical therapists take a holistic approach to solving PFD by looking at the whole body and incorporating core and postural muscle exercises into pelvic floor muscle exercise. Respiration, body mechanics, and lifestyle modifications are all included in preventing and treating PFD.

Are PFDs something women have dealt with for centuries, or is this recently becoming more and more prevalent?

VS: Cundiff et.al. (2000) states that the use of pessaries to treat pelvic organ prolapse can be traced back to antiquity. [Pessaries are typically plastic or silicone medical devices used to support the uterus, vagina, bladder, or rectum.] Women have dealt with PFD for centuries however it is under-reported because of shame and embarrassment involving the conditions. The intimate nature of the topic prevents women from discussing their symptoms openly or even confiding in their medical doctor. Many women believe that their condition is a “normal” part of aging and that they should just “live with it.”

Recently it seems more and more people are speaking out about PFD, which makes it seem like these conditions are more prevalent. Commercials are aired where women such as Whoopi Goldberg freely speak about “losing water” every time she laughs (this commercial makes me cringe because it is a commercial for pads, which means she is one of the many women who “lives with it”). Other commercials for medications, which treat conditions like overactive bladder, have increased awareness about these conditions. Recently Oprah Winfrey did a segment on “Physical Therapy for Your Lady Parts” which detailed common PFD and conservative management for these conditions, and Dr. Oz has recently discussed topics like pelvic floor anatomy and pelvic floor dysfunction. Education and scientific research are key to spreading the word about PFD. It is time for women to realize that there are treatment options available for these conditions and there are people out there who can help.

Mary South: This problem (pelvic organ prolapse and pelvic floor disorders) has been around as long as women have had pelvises (i.e. forever). Even in Egyptian times, there are reports of gold pessaries. People used to use potatoes too! What is happening now is this:

1.  More doctors are becoming subspecialty trained in urogynecology, formally known as Female Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive Surgery. The first fellowship in the United States was started in the 1980s and there are now over 30 nationwide.
2.  More women are willing to talk about these issues.
3.  The baby boomers are aging, and the fastest growing population in the US is in the over-80 age group. Since these disorders are more prevalent in aging women, the overall incidence is increasing.

What are some early signs a woman has a PFD? When should she see a doctor if symptoms continue?

VS: Signs of PFD include: urinary urgency, frequency, and leakage, bowel incontinence or constipation, pelvic organ bulging or a “feeling of falling out,” pelvic pain or pain with intercourse. These symptoms are not normal and a woman should report these symptoms to a doctor as soon as possible.

Is there anything else you would like to add to the conversation or discuss?

VS: A women’s health physical therapist is a physical therapist who specializes in the treatment of women throughout their lifespan. Women’s health PTs have specialized training to treat women who have urinary and fecal incontinence, retention, constipation, pelvic and low back pain, painful intercourse, women who have recently undergone gynecological surgery, women post cancer treatment, and women who are pregnant or in the post-partum period. Individualized treatments are performed following a throughout evaluation. Treatments can include pelvic floor muscle exercise, massage, myofascial release, trigger point release, biofeedback, flexibility, strengthening, core exercise, and lifestyle modifications. Urogynecologists refer patients to physical therapy as do gynecologists, colon and rectal surgeons, nurse practitioners, midwives, and primary care physicians. Most states have Direct Access, which means a patient may see a physical therapist without a referral from their doctor. Additionally, insurance covers pelvic floor therapy. To locate a women’s health physical therapist, one can visit the “PT locator” on the Section on Women’s Health website: www.womenshealthapta.org.

 

Victoria Schwartz, DPT, WCS has her doctorate in physical therapy from the University of Miami, Florida. She is board-certified from the American Board of Physical Therapy Specialties as a Women’s Health Clinical Specialist. The Center for Pelvic Floor and Core Rehabilitation is the leader in treating PFD in the Cincinnati area. The physical therapists see patients in offices located in Clifton and West Chester, OH. Please call 513-463-2518 or visit its website at www.pelvicfloorandcore.com. Victoria is a member of the American Physical Therapy Association and a member of the Section on Women’s Health. She is also proud to be a Pure Romance consultant who specializes in sexual health education and empowerment.

Dr. Mary South serves as adjunct assistant professor at the University of Cincinnati in the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology. She practices with UC Health and specializes in the areas of Urogynecology and Pelvic Reconstructive Surgery. Dr. South earned her B.A. in Chemistry from the College of Wooster, her M.D. from Case Western Reserve University, and went on to the University of North Carolina as a Resident in Obstetrics and Gynecology. Dr.South also completed a Fellowship in Urogynecology at Duke University Medical Center. She also serves as a Board Member of The Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health.

 

*Disclaimer: I am not a doctor. With the assistance from doctors on our Board combined with research, the blog posts this month have been created.

Libido, Desire, and Pleasure: The Sexual Domino Effect

Published November 21, 2011 by Patty Brisben

This post is part three in my series about the Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health. Click here and here to read the first two posts.

Which came first, the chicken or the egg? The phoenix or the flame? The libido or the pleasure? There are some things we may never know, and there are some things we most certainly can experiment with.

One of the four pillars of The Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health is in regards to Libido, Desire, and Pleasure. We fund research to explore what affects and enhances a woman’s sexual desire. On a theoretical note, though, I think it’s important to think about the sexual domino effect of libido, desire, and pleasure.

Ideally, a woman’s libido is on fire, which causes her to desire sexual activity and her partner (or herself!) more. This then leads her to experience pleasure with her partner or solo. But does it always have to be in that order? As women and men age, it’s common for their libidos to decrease. Symptoms of this include feelings of loss of connection with your partner, not wanting to initiate sex, dreading the thought of sexual behaviors, having no interest in experimenting in or out of the bedroom, and having sex significantly less.

We are busy and tired. Our minds are filled with projects at work, ensuring our children are happy, organizing Sunday’s family dinner. More often than not, other actions come before our sex lives and nurturing our libidos, when really, we should make sex a higher priority. Having a thriving sexual relationship with your partner and with yourself is not only a gift, it’s a stress reliever, gets your blood flowing, burns calories, strengthens pelvic floor muscles, and more.

In times when you think you aren’t feeling it, try to fool around a little. Drop everything else you’re doing and stop worrying. Kiss your partner. Have your partner kiss your neck or whatever erogenous zone really gives you the chills. When you start to feel some pleasure, your desire for more will grow. This, in return, will feed your libido (your body’s desire, not mental) and fire it up. Women are notorious for “thinking too much.” In the bedroom, when you think you’re not into it, and your mental desire isn’t there, try to boost it by feeling. Allow your outer senses to lead you to a more sexual mental state.

This sexual domino effect of libido, desire, and pleasure can work both ways. Heat up your desire whichever way works best, but always give it a try. When you’re feeling pleasure on all levels, it doesn’t matter which came first.

However, there are some who still struggle no matter what. This is where funding from the Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health can help. We are currently helping to fund a fellowship that focuses on libido studies in perimenopausal and menopausal women; libido and how it is affected by the use of hormonal contraceptives; and sexual dysfunction in women and her partner during and after cancer treatments.

Even if you do a quick Google search of “loss of libido,” you’ll find that it’s hard to find solid scientific information about women’s libidos. We have a pill for men, but we need more. We need a real solution, not just a band-aid. Our research shows that approximately one-quarter to one-half of women are affected by a lack of sexual desire, known as hypoactive sexual desire disorder. Now it’s time to help women and couples solve their libido issues.

With more research, we’re aiming to give our pill-popping society an alternate option: real solutions. Pills are a quick fix, but they may not necessarily get to the root of the problem. And we’ll only know the root of the problem and an equal solution with time, funding, and research.

When it comes to libido issues, it’s imperative to understand that every woman is different. What helps one woman may do nothing for another. It’s all about trying new things and not letting giving up be an option. Make a roadmap for yourself, and if something isn’t working, take a different route. You must actually work to be committed to finding the techniques that make you tick. Most importantly, both parties, you and your partner, need to be fully dedicated to working on libido issues. Keeping the lines of communication completely open and fluid is the only way to work toward something together—you can’t try to read each other’s minds. You have to talk about it. Whatever you do, try and try again. We’re certainly trying to find solutions, too.

*Disclaimer: I am not a doctor. With the assistance from doctors on our Board combined with research, the blog posts this month have been created.

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Menopause and The Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health

Published November 14, 2011 by Patty Brisben

This post is part two in my series about the Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health. Click here to read the first post.

Did you know that starting at an average age of 51, a woman could expect to live more than a third of her life in post-menopausal years? Did you also know that when it comes to perimenopause and menopause, women suffer sexual side effects?

Considering that every woman must go through this phase, funding for further research into what exactly happens to a woman sexually and what she can do to solve this is imperative. A woman going through perimenopause and menopause experiences symptoms such as hot flashes, night sweats, sleep disturbances, heart palpitations, vaginal thinning, depression, and decreased libido. With the Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health, I’d like to ease women of their concern regarding their sex lives during and post-51 years old.

The Patty Brisben Foundation supports Sexual Health and Menopause, an online educational program that can be found at menopause.org. Sexual Health and Menopause is designed to share information with the millions of women entering menopause (and their partners) who want to get a handle on what menopause might mean for their sex lives. Although most women experience some changes in sexual function as they age, menopause and aging certainly do not signal the end of a woman’s sex life. Because of the thinning of the vagina, pain or tightness may begin to accompany intercourse. Dryness may also affect a woman during this time, and resources such as the Sexual Health and Menopause guide can help couples get over these hurdles.

Unfortunately, when this happens to women, we tend to dismiss these issues and therefore allow a lack of intimacy to become normal. However, if women are given accurate, supportive advice and recommendations from doctors who have become well versed in the latter part of a woman’s sexual life, defaulting to a lackluster sex life doesn’t have to happen. While there is no “normal,” woman-to-woman, there need to be answers to questions that will help women achieve what they want sexually. Women’s sexual lives from perimenopause to post-menopausal years can no longer be ignored, especially considering the fact that one of the largest populations, baby boomers, are now in the perimenopausal stage.

Women have a gift of masterfully handling whatever their child’s or husband’s crisis may be. When it comes to her own, though, she tends to have a, “get it done, move on,” approach. With your sexual health, I urge women to pause. Take a moment to listen to your body. Think about what your body is telling you. Do you need to seek medical help or advice? If so, act upon it. Now is not the time to push your troubles aside. Now is the time to listen, learn, and thrive. With continued research and funding, the Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health is here to help.

*Disclaimer: I am not a doctor. With the assistance from doctors on our Board combined with research, the blog posts this month have been created.

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Vulvovaginal Pain Disorders

Published November 8, 2011 by Patty Brisben

This post is part one in my series about the Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health.


The first focus of the Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health in which we’ve played a large role is in the exploration of the first of our focuses, Vulvovaginal Pain Disorders. We’ve partnered with the National Vulvodynia Association (NVA) to create an online tutorial for women and healthcare providers alike. Everything You Need to Know about Vulvodynia is viewed by more than 200 women every single day.

Additionally, in 2010 we began funding a National Vulvodynia Treatment Outcomes Registry in conjunction with NVA to discover what treatments suit what subtypes of vulvodynia. This will help eliminate the numerous treatments women often try before finding what’s right for their specific subtype. Only two of the 25 therapies used to manage the painful symptoms of vulvodynia have undergone rigorous scientific evaluation, leaving medical professionals with little scientific data on which to base their treatment recommendations. As the NVA’s objectives state, goals are to:

  1. Collect preliminary data on the long-term efficacy of the most commonly utilized treatments, including, but not limited to: topical medications (e.g., anesthetics, antidepressants, anticonvulsants and/or hormones); oral “pain-blocking” medications (e.g., anticonvulsants, tricyclic antidepressants, selective serotonin-norephinephrine reuptake inhibitors and/or muscle relaxants); physical therapy; and surgery for Provoked Vestibulodynia, a major vulvodynia subtype;
  2. Differentiate vulvodynia subtypes based on physical findings and treatment response;
  3. Formulate multidisciplinary treatment plans for different vulvodynia subtypes;
  4. Determine which factors can predict treatment success.

Though more funding and research needs to be put into vulvovaginal pain disorders, the issue is gaining more coverage. Dr. Mehmet Oz (yes, the famous Dr. Oz) recently discussed the causes and symptoms of vulvodynia on his show. Dr. Oz says:

“The pain of vulvodynia can occur unprovoked or it can be triggered by direct contact. It can be constant or intermittent, mild or excruciating, and it can last for 6 months or longer. Childbirth, physical trauma, past surgery, scarring, and certain neurological conditions are known to activate vulvodynia.

The actual cause has eluded researchers but a genetic, hormonal, muscular, or neurological component that causes nerves to become overstimulated, overabundant, or entangled has been proposed. Some researchers have suggested that whatever is at work with fibromyalgia or chronic fatigue syndrome is at work here, causing intense and frequent firing of nerve signals.”

As you can see, researchers are still unaware of the exact cause of vulvodynia. The Patty Brisben Foundation seeks to resolve the cause and symptoms so women can lead happy, healthy sexual lives. What we can do now is share as much information as possible. We can aspire to give women hope that someday they not only can, but will, feel like themselves again. One of the most powerful tools every human has is their mind; if we seek the positive, we will find the positive. Believing in yourself and your health is almost as important as the research itself.

With the help of our sponsorship of the National Vulvodynia Treatment Outcomes Registry, there will be multiple treatment plans in the future. Making women aware of what resources there are to assist them during this time is the Foundation’s duty, and I believe the results of this registry will benefit every woman suffering a vulvovaginal pain disorder.

*Disclaimer: I am not a doctor. With the assistance from doctors on our Board combined with research, the blog posts this month have been created.

November Focus: The Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health

Published November 1, 2011 by Patty Brisben


This month we’re going to get heavy. As I’ve learned, with great power comes great responsibility, and I take my responsibility very seriously. When I founded Pure Romance, I set out with the goal to empower, educate, and entertain. Taking education further and allowing my responsibility to take precedence, I started something about which I am extremely passionate.

In 2006, I founded the Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health (PBF). To me, it was completely startling that there is a huge lack of training and research available to women and healthcare providers on women’s sexual dysfunction. Can you believe that the average healthcare provider receives around only 10 hours of training in human sexuality? I can’t either, but it’s the truth. And that’s where the PBF steps in.

We help fund research that allows the millions of women experiencing sexual health discomfort and disease to seek help and to seek a solution. It’s important to acknowledge that every adult woman is susceptible to any of the four conditions the PBF has focused on: Vulvovaginal Pain Disorders; sexual health issues related to perimenopause or menopause; intimacy-related sexual dysfunction after cancer therapy; and libido, desire, and pleasure.

Most recently, I co-wrote an e-book, Sexy Ever After: Intimacy Post-Cancer, based on findings from a study the PBF funded. In a study the largest of its kind to date, of young breast cancer survivors, 95% indicated that cancer had adversely affected their sexuality. Dr. Keri Peterson and I paired up to assist couples in the bedroom. They are often embarrassed to talk about it, so this helps both patients and doctors start an open conversation about post-cancer sexuality.

Throughout the month of November, I will be blogging about the remaining PBF pillars in honor of our PBF ¡Viva Violeta! Gala on Saturday, November 5. I get so excited for this fundraising event every single year. Not only do we raise money to fund further research, we also celebrate our successes with a fun and fabulous evening in downtown Cincinnati.

Please join me for a month of the topics nearest and dearest to my heart. With more attention, funding, and hope, I know we can help the lives of millions of women.

*Disclaimer: I am not a doctor. With the assistance from doctors on our Board combined with research, the blog posts this month have been created.

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